I’d take him home in a minute, they say. At the mall, the grocery store, while standing in line at the bank. When you finally reach the teller she says, I hope he is your deposit. Your baby smiles shyly, blinks his blue eyes and buries his face in your neck. Then they want him even more.
May I? They ask, hands poised over his blond curls. Like fresh cotton, they say. Like cashmere. Like chenille.
He could be on a magazine. In a commercial. On the side of a Pampers box. They say. At the museum, the zoo, while searching for books at the library. A woman flashes her library card and asks, Can I check him out for a few weeks?
You didn’t expect to have such a beautiful baby. A child who looks like he should be the son of a movie star, a model, or at least a pretty, young newlywed. Not an older housewife with problem hair and irreversible sun damage.
You make a gorgeous baby, a saleswoman says as he fingers her beaded earrings. You need to have another one. They say this often, as if it is easy. You smile and shrug and don’t mention the countless mornings you sat on the bathroom floor with the door locked, muffling your cries in a hand towel. The white plastic stick buried in the wastebasket because there was no blue line. No happy face in the window. Maybe that is why you are so afraid of losing him. Because your age, your health, you are lucky and infinitely grateful to have him at all. Maybe that is why your heart stops a little every time strangers say they want to take him home.
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Hayley LeMay likes all things short: short husband (5’6 ½”), son with short attention span, short stack of pancakes, Martin Short, and the short essay. She received an M.A. in English with an emphasis in Creative Nonfiction from the University of Nebraska at Omaha. Her work has appeared in Hippocampus Magazine.
Photo by Marcia Krause Bilyk
22 comments
Joan Walker says:
Jan 19, 2016
Oh. That is infinitely lovely.
Hayley LeMay says:
Jan 20, 2016
Thank you so much!
Cherye says:
Jan 23, 2016
This piece brought back such memories for me. Your careful choice of words makes this piece powerful
Hayley LeMay says:
Jan 24, 2016
Thank you for your kind words.
Jessica says:
Feb 1, 2016
Beautiful work. Inspiring and heart-warming.
Hayley LeMay says:
Feb 2, 2016
I appreciate your kind comments, thank you.
elizabeth says:
Feb 6, 2016
Lovely, and congratulations on your son.
Hayley LeMay says:
Feb 8, 2016
Oh, what a nice thing to write. Thank you!
Ebony says:
Feb 28, 2016
Very nice writing.
Hayley LeMay says:
Mar 1, 2016
Thank you, Ebony. I love your name.
Kristy Burmeister says:
Mar 31, 2016
I don’t normally comment, but dang if this didn’t hit me enough to make me do it. I love the quotes mixed in with descriptions. This is beautiful and reminds me of how I feel about my daughters.
Hayley LeMay says:
Apr 4, 2016
Kristy, I am really touched by your generous comments. Thank you so much.
Danica says:
Apr 18, 2016
Wow! That last line hits hard. I didn’t see it coming, but reading the piece, it’s there the whole time. Excellent work.
Hayley LeMay says:
Apr 20, 2016
Danica, your thoughtful comments and analysis mean a lot to me. Thank you so much.
Susan says:
Apr 22, 2016
I love this essay for so many reasons! Brillinat
Susan says:
Apr 22, 2016
I meant “Brilliant”! 🙂
Hayley LeMay says:
Apr 25, 2016
Susan, thank you so, so much for your generous reaction. I love your accidental misspelling-I consider myself more brillinat than brilliant anyway.
Kate says:
Aug 18, 2017
I’m sitting on the floor now, muffling my cries into a hand towel. Thanks for writing this.
Hayley says:
Oct 25, 2017
Thank you so much for your kind comment, Kate.
Abha Iyengar says:
Jan 5, 2018
What a wonderful read. I could feel myself in your place. Thank you.
Hayley says:
Jun 9, 2018
Thank you, Abha, for your kind post!
Donna Lucas says:
Feb 24, 2019
Beautiful post!