Language is alive. The written word does not sit inert on the page, black symbols on a white background. It reverberates with the intangible of the human experience—suffering, love, pain, self-seeking, self-sacrifice, indifference, generosity— and also concretizes human experience. Literature rises above the anecdotal to meld the intangible with the concrete. How the writer manages this fusion points to what I call substance.
Substance is not a theme, but it may be the support that structures a theme. It is my experience that this support—the substance of the piece—is compassion. For example, I wrote an essay that discloses the narrator’s extreme apprehension about going to the “celebration of life” of the dead son of a friend. The narrator of the piece describes events and actions that reveal her acute anxiety. But underlying these details is the writer’s compassionate awareness of the narrator’s suffering. The writer walks with the narrator without trying to change what the narrator is experiencing, without making fun of the narrator or any other character. Even if a character’s actions appear ludicrous, the writer never editorializes, never judges, but always remains the compassionate, detached witness who understands the frail humanity of the characters on the page.
This is what I mean by substance.
When I read my own work and that of others, I ask myself: Does the writer have compassion for the character on the page? Does the writer know the character’s life history, background, biography? Does the writer understand how the character has arrived at the point where the story begins? Has the writer somehow entered into the character’s struggle? With the personal “I” narrator: Does the writer portray the narrator’s struggle with an understanding of the narrator’s weaknesses, fears, or defects without trying to control the outcome of what’s happening?
Substance is not writing about compassion; it is writing with compassion so that the reader feels the writer’s authenticity.
Stepping into the minds and hearts and lives of those I encounter is how I learn compassion. A part of a writer’s calling is to notice others and to be the one who strives to understand the human condition. My written explorations can be conducted by my imagination or via observation, but they must be directed toward empathy and eschew ridicule, mockery, and scorn.
Another view of substance is to consider the things you care about, which I call points of reference. For example, one of Wendell Berry’s points of reference is reverence for creation. His compassion for the earth and all who depend on the earth’s bounty gives his writing authenticity. It is the substance of his writing.
Try this exercise as you discern what gives authenticity to your own writing: Sit in a quiet place, eyes opened or closed, pencil and paper by your side. Clear your mind of its busy-ness. Feel your heart space—calm, deep, full of wisdom. Ask yourself: What do I care about? Let the answers arise in their own time and way. Write down the things, concepts, or people that surface in the stillness. Choose one and take ten minutes to write about it.
What you care about is your point of reference, the place where your compassionate nature can grow and flourish. With practice, this point of reference—this “something” that you care so deeply about—becomes the substance that gives authority to your voice via your written words.
All writers make language choices and shape words according to their preferences, style, artistry, and inspiration. Combine your unique voice with substance to make your words a living, dynamic presence on the page.
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Mary Ann McSweeny is an educator and instructional designer. Her work has appeared in The MacGuffin, Months to Years, So It Goes literary journal, The Baltimore Review, Toasted Cheese Literary Journal, and Highlights for Children. She is the co-author of a series of meditation books published by Liguori Publications.
21 comments
Lesley Taylor says:
Jan 20, 2020
Thank-you Mary Ann for this insightful article. I do my best writing when I am passionate about something but often struggle to ‘find my voice’. I am looking forward to trying the writing exercise that you describe above. Cheer!
Mary Ann says:
Jan 20, 2020
Thank you for reading and commenting, Lesley. I find my truest voice often comes from a place beyond my consciousness and its power can be surprising.
Eric Ruthford says:
Jan 21, 2020
Wow this is educational about the importance of compassion and thinking about a compassionate voice. I’m a smart-aleck myself, and the temptation to use a zinger on one of my characters is really strong. I need to work on this myself.
Mary Ann says:
Jan 21, 2020
Thanks for your thoughtful comment, Eric. As long as the zinger comes from the character and not the writer… go for it! It’s a fine line to walk, though.
Fr. Warren. Savage says:
Jan 21, 2020
Thank you Mary Ann for being a compassionate person who is willing to make yourself vulnerable in your writing experience. I will share your exercise with my colleagues at the Albert and Amelia Ferst Interfaith Center at Westfield State University, Westfield, MA.
Mary Ann says:
Jan 21, 2020
Thank you for kind feedback, Fr. Savage. It’s good to know you will be spreading the word about writing with compassion.
Nancy Brown says:
Jan 23, 2020
Thank you for the moment you suggested. I sat and considered, chose one thing, wrote. I see it in my current piece, but not strong enough, thankyou for your wisdom, this essay.
Mary Ann says:
Jan 24, 2020
Interesting that you already see what your heartspace revealed in your current writing, Nancy. Our inner wisdom knows, doesn’t it?
Mary Ellen Gambutti says:
Jan 23, 2020
Thank you, Mary Ann. You’ve given me much to consider in memoir. To write with compassion for my often abusive adoptive military parents, portray a system that fosters child welfare, and secrecy and shame, and still allow heart for the narrator is my challenge.
Mary Ann says:
Jan 24, 2020
You raise such a delicate point, Mary Ellen. The compassion of the writer sees the humanity of those who abuse, who are unjust, who shame – without denying the hurt and pain that is afflicted. The narrator of the piece will not necessarily see as clearly as the writer because the events are so personal. The compassion of the writer gives the narrator freedom to be judgmental, angry, anxious… In memoir, I think there are close-ups of what happened and there are zoom-outs of hard-gained wisdom. Is that your experience?
Barry Casey says:
Jan 23, 2020
Thank you for this, the reminder to be mindful and to allow compassion to lead in our lives.
Mary Ann says:
Jan 24, 2020
You’re right, Barry – mindfulness is essential for deepening compassion. Thank you.
Urmilla Khanna says:
Jan 24, 2020
Thank you for your insight. I have always struggled with “Can I teach myself compassion or is it an inherent quality–I have it or I don’t.” Any thoughts?
Mary Ann says:
Jan 24, 2020
What a great question, Urmilla. I believe human persons are born to love, so that is an inherent quality. My sense is that compassion is learned through our own suffering. “Com” – “with” – “passion” – “suffering.” If I have been bullied, I can learn compassion for others who are being bullied. If I have experienced the death of a loved one and felt the kindness of people who showed up for the wake, sent a card, called to check on me… then I can learn compassion for others who experience the death of a loved one and show up for the wake, send a card, call to check on them. To be compassionate is to be willing to be with those who are suffering simply because I know what it is like to suffer.
Mumtaz Ahmad Shah says:
Apr 2, 2020
Thanks ,Marry Anna for such an excellent and vivid guide note for writers.
I’m a passionate about writing . But my writing has remained more of a horizontal. Where my character is just fast moving. I feel my writing is missing vertical knowledge of the characters, but has been unable to over come . Could you suggest me how can I move from description to deep understanding of the characters passion, his pain and love.
Mary Ann says:
Apr 5, 2020
Thank you your dedication to the art and craft of writing, Mumtaz. My best answer to your question is to reflect on your own life and experiences and those of people you know well or have interacted with. How do real people respond to obstacles and challenges? What is a selfish person like? What is a generous person like? What happens to a generous person when there isn’t enough food to go around? What effect does chronic pain have on someone who wants to be out and about and can’t be? How does someone act when they are afraid? Your own observations will allow you to understand your fictional characters impulses and reactions and – hopefully – provide insight into the character’s growth or lack thereof. As you so wisely observe, a one-dimensional character isn’t as interesting as one with flaws and strengths that your readers can relate to. I also think that your characters will reveal a lot to you, if you take time to listen to them.
Louise says:
Nov 13, 2020
“A part of a writer’s calling is to notice others and to be the one who strives to understand the human condition.” Yes! This is why I write, in a nutshell.
Mary Ann says:
Mar 23, 2021
Noticing – yes, that is the writer’s gift. Thank you, Louise.
Oscar Ortiz says:
Sep 13, 2021
I highly enjoyed this, a lot of the time i’m faced with the moral dilemma of writing from the heart. It feels good knowing someone else out there belives the the way i do, its just so much easier when you write with compassion instead of writing for compassion. Personalism is seen in every style of writing, wether its a mediocre essay written fastly by a college student who taking english bc/ they have too or by a professor in english; writting reval so much of the soul and its inanse how underappreciated it is, especially when its real.
Oscar Ortiz says:
Sep 13, 2021
I loved this, it pretty much confirmed a lot of aspect in my own philosphy of writing. feels good knowing there’s others out there who belive in a certain way of writing that is compareble too mine.
Kiarra Aldarondo says:
Apr 2, 2023
I enjoyed reading this. I don’t usually leave comments but this is such a wonderful lesson that can not only be applied to writing literature but also to our lives. Remembering to be compassionate towards others is such a beautiful we should all do.